How Long Does Therapy Last? - GoodTherapy.org Therapy Blog (2024)

We live in a fast-paced world where time seems like it is always in short supply. If you are beginning therapy or considering it, you probably want to know how long it is going to take before what you are experiencing and seek to resolve is worked out. The simple answer to that perplexing question is that there is no simple answer. Here, a few therapists weigh in on the amount of time it takes to see results with therapy:

How Long Does Therapy Last? - GoodTherapy.org Therapy Blog (1)Cynthia W. Lubow, MS, MFT: There is a great deal of variety in the length of time therapy takes depending on the individual who comes to therapy. The treatment methods the therapist uses, the goals of the person seeking therapy, the symptoms he or she has, and the history of those symptoms will all determine the length of therapy.

Generally, when people have nurturing, protective, wise parents and no trauma throughout childhood, therapy will be short. Usually in this case, people come to therapy for a recent trauma, such as a rape, abortion, mugging, or car accident; a loss such as a death, job loss, or divorce; or a dilemma, like being unhappy in a relationship or job.

In these cases, just talking about the issues, grieving the losses, getting compassionate understanding and wise insight, or trauma treatment like eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), can resolve the situation. Depending on how much and how deeply you want to make use of therapy, this can be one session, or six months or more of weekly sessions.

When people have been repeatedly traumatized, abused, neglected, or shamed as a child, without loving adults to help them handle these traumas, they generally need several years in therapy, or even more. When people get hurt in relationships that are supposed to be close and trustworthy (like parents), it takes another committed and consistently trustworthy person to help repair those wounds over time. When people have been badly hurt, especially when they were children, repair is generally a slower process of developing trust in the therapist and transforming childhood ways of coping into more effective ways.

How Long Does Therapy Last? - GoodTherapy.org Therapy Blog (2)Erika Myers, MS, MEd, LPC, NCC: Length of therapy can vary depending on your specific needs and circ*mstances. Some people come to therapy with a specific issue or concern, and brief solution-focused therapy may be the right fit. Often, that can last six to eight sessions. Some people come to therapy to explore issues that seem to run a little deeper. They might engage in therapy for several months or even years.

In my practice, generally I start seeing people once a week for about a month. After that, some continue coming in weekly, while others move to every other week and some eventually transition to once a month. I’ve had people who transition out of therapy and come back in once or twice a year for a “tune up” or for a series of sessions to address a specific concern that has come up.

When you choose a therapist, you can talk about your needs and expectations. There are some insurance plans that only cover a set number of sessions in a given year. If you are planning on using insurance to cover the costs of sessions, you will want to know what those limitations are. You can also contract with your therapist for a specific number of sessions and then evaluate where you are and if you want to continue working together.

One thing to keep in mind is that the single greatest predictor of positive therapeutic outcomes is the quality of the relationship and rapport you develop with your therapist. Building trust and developing that relationship can take time. If you are looking to address needs that run deeper than finding an immediate solution to a specific concern, you may want to allow yourself more time.

How Long Does Therapy Last? - GoodTherapy.org Therapy Blog (3)Ruth Wyatt, MA, LCSW: With therapy, there usually is no set length of treatment. Therapy can last anywhere from one session to several months or even years. It all depends on what you want and need. Some people come to therapy with a very specific problem they need to solve and might find that one or two sessions is sufficient. Other people come to therapy with more complicated issues they are grappling with and may feel they need a few months or more to understand and resolve their issues. Other people come with long-standing problems or difficult feelings and may benefit from longer-term therapy. The length of treatment may also vary depending on the type of therapy in which you are engaging. For example, cognitive behavioral therapy or couples counseling tend to be short to medium term therapies, while psychoanalytically-oriented therapies may involve more medium to longer term work.

Regardless of why you are seeking therapy or the type of therapy you are doing, it is important to remember that, ultimately, it is your decision as to when you stop therapy. If you are unsure about what you need/want by way of length of treatment, you might raise the question with your therapist to get his/her thoughts. It can also be helpful to discuss your goals of therapy with your therapist. Clarifying what you want from therapy can help you figure out if you have met your goals and when you are ready to stop therapy. When I meet with people for the first time, I usually ask them what they are hoping to get out of therapy and/or how their lives would be different if therapy was to help them. Then, as our work progresses, I periodically check in with them to see how they feel the work is going and to what extent they feel their goals are being met.

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    Michele

    September 29th, 2021 at10:13 AM

    I am in my 3rd year of trauma therapy due to my frequent disassociation, is there a timeline as my brilliant physcologist has yet to work on processing due to disassociation

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How Long Does Therapy Last? - GoodTherapy.org Therapy Blog (2024)

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How long does therapy last on average? ›

The number of recommended sessions varies by condition and treatment type, however, the majority of psychotherapy clients report feeling better after 3 months; those with depression and anxiety experience significant improvement after short and longer time frames, 1-2 months & 3-4.

How often does therapy last? ›

Therapy has been found to be most productive when incorporated into a client's lifestyle for approximately 12-16 sessions, most typically delivered in once weekly sessions for 45 minutes each. For most folks that turns out to be about 3-4 months of once weekly sessions.

When does therapy end? ›

There is no “right” length of time to be in therapy. But for most people, there will come a time when therapy no longer feels necessary or progress has stalled. In most cases, the client will choose to end therapy; there are also situations in which a therapist decides to end sessions and refer a client elsewhere.

How long should family therapy last? ›

Family therapy is often short term — generally about 12 sessions. However, how often you meet and the number of sessions you'll need will depend on your family's particular situation and the therapist's recommendation.

Is it OK to be in therapy for years? ›

Ruth Wyatt, MA, LCSW: With therapy, there usually is no set length of treatment. Therapy can last anywhere from one session to several months or even years. It all depends on what you want and need.

Is it OK to be in therapy long term? ›

If you are looking for more of a quick solution for a specific problem, short-term therapies can be beneficial, whereas if you would rather have space and time to explore multiple problems or an issue and its potential roots in-depth, long-term therapy may be the right choice for you.

How do you know when to stop therapy? ›

Signs You May Be Ready to End Therapy
  1. You accomplished the goals that you set when you began. ...
  2. You've reached a plateau. ...
  3. You don't have anything to talk about. ...
  4. Your needs have changed throughout the course of therapy.
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Is therapy every 2 weeks enough? ›

But in general, Dr. Bradford says that people usually are in therapy once a week or every other week, especially if you're just starting treatment.

What is considered long term therapy? ›

Long-term psychotherapy is typically referred to as psychotherapy that exceeds the normal parameters of time allotted for the treatment of most psychological disorders.

How long do therapists keep clients? ›

Retention of records

The guidelines state: "In the absence of a superseding requirement, psychologists may consider retaining full records until seven years after the last date of service delivery for adults or until three years after a minor reaches the age of majority, whichever is later."

What happens after therapy is over? ›

"When therapy is complete, you realize you're an adult," says Tuzman. "You begin to trust yourself." But just as you feel pride that you're ready to meet life's challenges on your own, you may also grieve the loss of the bond you've created with your therapist, says Napoli. "It's a unique relationship," he says.

How do you say goodbye to a therapist? ›

You thank me by having done the work, by acknowledging me as you have tonight, and then by living your life in a powerful way,” she said. “That's the thanks.”

What is the success rate of family therapy? ›

Over 98 percent of clients of marriage and family therapists report therapy services as good or excellent.

How many weeks should group therapy last? ›

How long do groups last? Most groups last 8-10 weeks. Others will continue from one term to the next, perhaps taking a break over summer and winter vacations.

What is the middle stage of family therapy? ›

The middle stage of therapy is when the real work happens. There will usually be open discussion about the issues, learning new skills, homework to practice the new skills, and reporting on what is and isn't working to determine what needs to be tweaked. This stage should continue until you find solutions that work.

Can there be too much therapy? ›

In fact, according to one psychotherapist, some patients actually suffer from too much therapy. Jonathan Alpert, a psychotherapist and author of "Be Fearless: Change Your Life in 28 Days," contends that in many cases, the more therapy sessions someone attends, the less likely they are to be effective.

Can you ever have too much therapy? ›

So can you have too much therapy? Arguably yes, if you aren't actively working towards an end goal or if you are looking to endless different therapised avenues for help. At some point you need to learn to trust your intuition and make decisions on your own terms.

Am I too dependent on my therapist? ›

If your therapist is the first person you want to talk to about it and you hesitate to take action before talking to her, you may have become too dependent. If you feel like you cannot live your life without your therapist's involvement, you may have an unhealthy attachment.

How long should you stay with the same therapist? ›

According to Laura Osinoff, executive director of the National Institute for the Psychotherapies in Manhattan, “On average, you can expect to spend one to three years [in therapy] if you are having, for example, relationship problems.

How do long term therapists break up? ›

  1. Reflect on whether the relationship can (or should) be repaired. ...
  2. Reflect on where your needs aren't being met. ...
  3. You decide how much (or how little) to explain. ...
  4. Be prepared to set boundaries (just in case) ...
  5. Know that it's not your job to protect your therapist's feelings. ...
  6. Don't hesitate to ask for referrals or resources.
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Do therapists improve over time? ›

Taken together, these studies suggest that therapists can improve over time. And, as with our clients, this improvement requires commitment and effort.

Do I need to keep going to therapy? ›

Ideally, therapy ends when all therapy goals have been met. If you entered therapy to treat a fear of dogs and you no longer fear dogs, your work is complete. Or you want to communicate better with your partner and you've learned to navigate your disagreements constructively, the goals are met.

Why do patients quit therapy? ›

The authors note some reasons why patients drop out: They are unwilling to open up about themselves; they cannot agree with the therapist about what the problem is; they just don't get along with or feel confidence in the therapist; they believe they are not improving quickly enough; they have unrealistic expectations.

Should I go to therapy every week or every two weeks? ›

First off, evidence-based research studies generally show an association between weekly psychotherapy sessions and positive outcomes for clients. This appears to be especially important in the first stage of therapy, when you're building rapport with your therapist and beginning to get to the core of things.

How do you know therapy is working? ›

You also know therapy is working if you're using the skills you learned in session, outside of session. For example, are you better able to set boundaries with others, prioritize your own needs and demands, and effectively deal with situations without spiraling into a panic attack? These are great signs of progress.

Is it OK to contact therapist between sessions? ›

The lesson here? An occasional message of support outside of the therapy routine can strengthen the therapeutic bond. If nothing else, it shows the client in a very clear way that they don't leave your thoughts when they—or you—leave your office.

Is short term therapy more effective than long-term therapy? ›

Because short-term therapy tends to be structured and focused on the patient making progress on a specific goal or goals, some people find it more helpful than long-term therapy. Short-term therapy may be beneficial for people who: Are experiencing relatively recent symptoms of depression or anxiety.

What should I not tell my therapist? ›

Other things to avoid during a therapy session include: asking about other confidential conversations with other clients; showcasing violent emotions; or implying any romantic or sexual interest in your therapist. The number one job of a therapist is to keep you safe and protect their clients' privacy.

How long does a mental health treatment plan last? ›

A MHTP does not expire. A referral is valid until the referred number of sessions have been completed, regardless of whether a patient chooses to change their allied mental health provider.

Do therapists ever be friends with former clients? ›

While not common, a friendship can develop when you've finished therapy. There are no official rules or ethical guidelines from either the American Psychological Associated or American Psychiatric Association regarding friendships with former clients.

Do therapists ever date former clients? ›

The APA Code, Standard 10.08(a), states: "Psychologists do not engage in sexual intimacies with former clients/patients for at least two years after cessation or termination of therapy.” This is the first part of the 2-year rule.

How often do clients drop out of therapy? ›

Depending on which study you read, between 20 and 57% of therapy clients do not return after their initial session. Another 37 to 45% only attend therapy a total of two times. Although many factors contribute to premature client termination, the number one cited reason by clients is dissatisfaction with the therapist.

Do therapists grieve clients? ›

Even when proper therapeutic boundaries are held, it is not unusual for a counselor to grieve a client's death. Counselors often form emotional bonds with their clients because therapeutic relationships are relationships.

What do you do when your therapist dies? ›

According to Dr. Gold, the first thing to do is grieve. “You should find a way that feels right to you to memorialize and process the relationship. It might mean you talk about it with someone else who knows you went to therapy and knows what the relationship meant to you and feels safe to process the loss with.

Can therapy make you fall in love again? ›

One of the questions that couples often ask when they first start therapy is, “Can we actually fall in love again?” The answer is a resounding “Yes, absolutely!” But it doesn't happen easily or accidentally.

What do therapists do when clients withdraw from them? ›

Reach out empathically when clients no-show or cancel.

The purpose is to let clients know you available to them, not to chastise them. You are leaving the door open for returning back to treatment. A phone call is more personal, but if you hear nothing back, follow up with an email a week or so later.

Can I give my therapist a goodbye gift? ›

While most therapists do appreciate small gifts from clients on occasion, they are also never expected. If you do want to get your therapist a gift, for therapeutic and ethical reasons, small, meaningful items are usually best, and almost never money or a gift card.

What do you say when a client cries in therapy? ›

Normalize and validate the response. Compassionately state that crying is a normal reaction. Let the client know explicitly that it's okay to cry; there's no need to hold back the tears. If offering a tissue box, it's often useful to say, “Please don't try to hold those tears back.

What is the success rate of therapy? ›

About 75 percent of people who enter psychotherapy show some benefit from it. Psychotherapy has been shown to improve emotions and behaviors and to be linked with positive changes in the brain and body.

How will I know when to stop therapy? ›

Stopping therapy may be an option if you feel you have achieved all the goals you set and you've developed the skills to move on. You've learned how to manage your symptoms or have found a way to move through a challenge.

Can you have too much therapy? ›

In fact, according to one psychotherapist, some patients actually suffer from too much therapy. Jonathan Alpert, a psychotherapist and author of "Be Fearless: Change Your Life in 28 Days," contends that in many cases, the more therapy sessions someone attends, the less likely they are to be effective.

How many therapy sessions does it take to get better? ›

So how long does it typically take for treatment to work? Recent research indicates that on average 15 to 20 sessions are required for 50 percent of patients to recover as indicated by self-reported symptom measures.

What percent of clients get worse from therapy? ›

Anywhere from 50 to 75 percent of people who go to therapy report some benefit—but at least 5 percent of clients get worse as a result of treatment. (For people from marginalized groups, harmful outcomes may be even more common.)

What is the failure rate of therapy? ›

In psychotherapy we are also aware of the important fact that the amount of unwanted effects is very similar to fields such as pharmacotherapy, and the number of patients reporting unwanted effects of psychotherapy is between 3 and 15% of cases (Berk and Parker, 2009).

What percentage of people drop out of therapy? ›

Ghosting Your Therapist: Why Do Individuals Prematurely Dropout of Therapy. Studies show that 20-57% of individuals do not return to therapy after their initial appointment. There are various reasons for this, and for premature dropout rate in general.

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